Called To Forgive

 

As Christians, we are called to forgive.

Many of us, like Peter in Matthew 18, want to know the limit. How many times must I forgive? Seven times? Surely that’s enough. But Jesus answers, “Seventy times seven.” In other words—keep forgiving.

I firmly believe that as we search our own hearts and seek God’s guidance through His Word, we begin to break those “one-time” acts of forgiveness into smaller pieces. And in doing so, we uncover more opportunities to show grace. Forgiveness becomes less of a task and more of a habit—a reflection of the mercy we’ve received.

The truth is, forgiveness isn’t about counting offenses; it’s about cultivating a renewed heart posture through grace. Our commitment to ongoing forgiveness reflects God’s everlasting covenant with His people. In Genesis 17, God doesn’t just make a promise to Abraham—He extends it to generations to come. His love, mercy, and forgiveness is not a one-time act. They flow continually, despite how often we stray.

Our hope isn’t in human perfection; it’s in the perfect love of Christ. We are all flawed. So as you commit to forgiving again and again, begin leaning into those harder places—the offenses you’ve labeled “unforgivable.” That’s where real heart change happens.

As Kayleigh McEnany shares in her book, “When hearts are converted, lives change and society changes.” If you have not read her book, I highly encourage you to do so. 

While you are on the quest to forgiveness, remember this scripture, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.” —Ephesians‬ ‭4‬:‭32‬

Forgiveness does not mean nothing happened. It means you have chosen to rise above it. 

Remember, when the offense no longer has a hold on you, you walk in freedom—not bondage.

If you're struggling with forgiveness, you are more than welcome to use my prayer.

Gracious Father, thank You for the mercy and forgiveness You so freely give. Soften my heart, Lord, and help me to walk in the freedom of grace. Teach me to forgive as You forgive—to let go of offenses, release bitterness, and reflect Your love even when it’s hard. Remind me that forgiveness isn’t about forgetting what happened, but about trusting You to heal what was broken. Create in me a heart that leans on Your truth, filled with compassion and grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

With love,
Candye